One of the Problems We see at the Law Office
How to make your kids
hate their new step parent
You have loved your spouse for many years, but now you are
alone in the world. Or you were until
you found another whose life experiences are similar and who now adds
immeasurably to your happiness and who brings a beautiful new dimension to your
life. Your children say they only want
you to be happy. But they seem to not
like your new love. How can they
possibly see things so differently?
Maybe your children know something you do not. Maybe they know the law of Descent and
Distribution in Nebraska.
As the sole surviving parent, your children will inherit
everything you own when you die, or if you have a will, then everything your
will gives them, and every account or investment on which you have named them
as beneficiaries. But if you marry,
then your new spouse will be entitled at your death to the first $52,500 of
your assets plus at least half of everything else you have left after paying
your debts and funeral costs.
Prenuptial agreements are useful and in many cases do
accomplish their purpose. But it is
difficult to talk so frankly and so objectively with the one you hope will
share your most intimate details for the rest of your life. So what alternatives are there?
You should spend some time with your friendly local
attorney. There are certain things that
can be done that will protect your children and which will not require the
approval of your prospective spouse. The
changes do not have to be expensive.
Your attorney should talk about life estates, irrevocable trusts, life
insurance policies, and incorporation.
So, to help your children feel comfortable with your new
spouse, talk to your attorney before the wedding.
Witte Law Office
6125 Havelock Ave
Lincoln, NE 8507
402-467-5080
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